Photo: © Ayuna / Stocksy United Death is messy. No kidding, I can almost hear you say. Of course it is. Yes, I hear you. Those parts are obvious. I'm talking about the mess after. What you don’t know is coming. The grief that comes for you when you don’t expect it. The shock of realizing the death happens once, but the losses keep coming. So many other things died when that person died. When my dad died, it wasn't only my dad who died. My hope died too. Hope that we could ha